Update

You will recall the matter of Jay’s disgraceful behaviour at the recent party we attended & far worse, the words she used in comments following on from posting on the blog. It was not my intention to write this post, because I don’t normally talk or write about what I consider to be a private matter between Jay and myself.
However, as what she said is on the blog for all to see, I have decided to tell you the outcome. Oh, I must tell you when I informed Jay she would be severely punished, she explained that the C word has a different meaning in America and her intention was to ‘educate’ those who might not fully understand what had been said. She may have a valid point but it is not an excuse for her actions, there are more subtle ways to say things.

The evening before punishment when chatting on-line, Jay told me she was very worried, concerned for her bottom that is. She genuinely hates the crop, but I had threatened so was no going back.
Next evening Jay was told to remove jeans.  (I was sitting on the bed next to Worzel and removed my jeans without being told to.)

(Worzel moved to the other side of the bed and sat, patting his legs, indicating that I should place myself in the OTK position.)

I started with a good hand spanking to warm Jay up, you might say is being kind, but thats me. (Worzel always starts the spanking over my boyshorts, and usually pulls them down while I am still OTK. This time when I felt his fingers in the waistband I eased myself up and stood by his side as I removed my shorts. I went back over his knees, this time with my bottom bare. It was a hard spanking, and what made it harder was that I knew I deserved it. After a while Worzel said I was to stand, I did but I was struggling to look him in the face, I was ashamed. He spoke for a few minutes and at one point he held my face in his hands before he told me to lay face down on the bed.)

Then 18 with my leather belt.

Next I fetched crop out of the bag. although Jay was face down on bed, she was watching and I saw her facial expression. I administered strokes, 3 from one side of bed, then other side alternatively. At 14th stroke Jay said ‘ I am sorry’. She was in tears by now and her bottom / upper thighs were marked. Bottom not so bad, thighs a lot more.

(When Worzel went to get the crop I was scared, when I saw it I whimpered and quickly turned my head away. When the first stroke came I knew this was deadly serious. It stung so much. I tried to stay still as moving would have meant that the crop would have landed in more sensitive places. I was crying a lot while Worzel was punishing me, mostly from pain but also knowing that he was disapointed in me.)

The crop has a ‘whippy bit’ on the end and although I am very careful when using, it is still a painful implement. I stopped at this point. Punishment was over. Then I applied lots of cold cream to soothe the extreme discomfort. Sitting later and reflecting I have decided the crop will not be used again except maybe in very exceptional circumstances. I shall still be strict with Jay and punishments severe when necessary which I achieve with dragon canes.

Lov you Jay, lov you lots xxx

Spanking & PMS.

OK, tis a serious subject today…despite the funny pic.  While PMS is not a topic that you would generally discuss, it is important so I urge you men to read this.

I’m sure most women who are into spanking have had thoughts about this subject, I know I have.

It’s quite worrying when you first get into spanking and then are hit by horrid thoughts that plague you for hours. “What if I’m on when he spanks me?”  ”Will spanking hurt more when I’m on?”

I have found that of course my body is more sensitive at this particular time but with care, communication with Worzel and a little help from Tampax….play is still possible.

Lets face it girls, our men (if they are doing their job properly) know when we are more sensitive, or likely to rip their head off for the littlest thing or burst into tears for seemingly no reason.

If your man is dense (lets not pretend, they are men after all), then just quietly hint to him that you are on, and play might have to be administered carefully if at all. If he doesnt get the hint you can always throw a Tampax at his head and watch him scream and dance around like a girl lol.

Why are men so repulsed by Tampax and bunny pads?  I sent Worzel to the supermarket the other week to buy me a box…..he seemed to have no problems.

So, to round-up.

Play during PMS is ok, so long as you are sensible…..communicate with your man……and don’t kill him of he brings the subject of spanking up.

Oh and guys, just a little hint………..when we are on PMS……don’t pass it off as “oh its just women’s problems/ a stomach ache, don’t be so dramatic!”   PMS is bloody painful………..like someone scraping at the walls of your stomach with a wire brush! And the back ache’s………..you think you have back problems, try having them each month!

Ahem, here endeth the lesson.