That, is the question.

When one does TTWD for any number of years does one go all out and buy all the necessary equipment or work with what one already has?

Image result for leather 3 corner sofaOur sofa at the moment is good for sitting on, which is what God intended but for those of the kinky persuasion a sofa is an extension of the kink.   The recipient is bent over the arm or back and bottom high in the air is dealt with in timely fashion. Sometimes the recipient is to lay face down across the length with only a cushion to elevate the target area. Sometimes if they are lucky they get to lay across a lap and given a modicum of comfort.  Yes the sofa is as good as a spanking bench any day.

Image result for solid wood dining table Perhaps you use your dining table?  If its sturdy enough there’s no reason not to, you can even tie the recipient down if they are willing (or if they are not).  I am sure a good few repentant tears have been shed on a dinning table, or kitchen table even.  Heck we all know that Other TWD happens on these tables from time to time.

Image result for piano stool Perhaps you are lucky enough to have a Piano and stool (or other useful stool)? Theses are lovely and versatile both for sitting or bending over.  The stool not the piano, though I suppose if its a grand then it might be possible.

With these things you also have the added bonus of not having to hide them whenever a vanilla comes to visit.  I can only imagine the excuses that have come up about a personal St Andrews Cross.

So does one buy or not?

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Spanking & PMS.

OK, tis a serious subject today…despite the funny pic.  While PMS is not a topic that you would generally discuss, it is important so I urge you men to read this.

I’m sure most women who are into spanking have had thoughts about this subject, I know I have.

It’s quite worrying when you first get into spanking and then are hit by horrid thoughts that plague you for hours. “What if I’m on when he spanks me?”  “Will spanking hurt more when I’m on?”

I have found that of course my body is more sensitive at this particular time but with care, communication with Worzel and a little help from Tampax….play is still possible.

Lets face it girls, our men (if they are doing their job properly) know when we are more sensitive, or likely to rip their head off for the littlest thing or burst into tears for seemingly no reason.

If your man is dense (lets not pretend, they are men after all), then just quietly hint to him that you are on, and play might have to be administered carefully if at all. If he doesnt get the hint you can always throw a Tampax at his head and watch him scream and dance around like a girl lol.

Why are men so repulsed by Tampax and bunny pads?  I sent Worzel to the supermarket the other week to buy me a box…..he seemed to have no problems.

So, to round-up.

Play during PMS is ok, so long as you are sensible…..communicate with your man……and don’t kill him of he brings the subject of spanking up.

Oh and guys, just a little hint………..when we are on PMS……don’t pass it off as “oh its just women’s problems/ a stomach ache, don’t be so dramatic!”   PMS is bloody painful……… someone scraping at the walls of your stomach with a wire brush! And the back ache’s……… think you have back problems, try having them each month!

Ahem, here endeth the lesson.

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