- Would you rather your lover be a vanilla or a spankoholic too? When I find my lover he will be a spanko. I have done vanilla and i aint going back.
- Would you rather be spanked by a stranger or by someone who knew you well? Someone who knows me. Its safer and more fun that way.
- Would you rather be spanked by despotic, mean person or by a compassionate, benevolent person? The second.
- Would you rather be talked to while you are spanked or no talking at all? I mentioned to Worzel recently that I hate the silent spanks, they make me scared. I would rather know that there was a person behind the thing causing pain on my arse.
- Would you rather get one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous tanning to build up the fire? I like both, although Worzel favours the one at a time with build up.
- Would you rather be forced into a spanking or willingly submit into a spanking? Again I like both. But the forced one has to be with someone that knows me really well.
- Would you rather have a safe word or be pushed beyond your preconceived limits? I have a safeword but I don’t use it that much. We still do the limit thing though we havent found mine yet.
- Would you rather your spanker know your spanking history or is ignorance bliss? Worzel knows my history….both spanking and ‘nilla.
- Would you rather be spanked by multiple people at one time or just by one person at one time? Only one thanks.
- Would you rather be spanked once a day or once every few months? Once every few months!!!! Your joking right….I can just barely cope with only being spanked every week or so. Once every few months would be torture.
- Would you rather your spanker be deeply in tune or be totally unaffected to your experience as a spankee? If he was totally unaffected then I wouldn’t let him spank me. Might as well get a robot.
- Would you rather a closer physical relationship or a closer emotional relationship with your spanker? I have both. We have lots of spanking time and lots of cuddle time. Both are equally important. Of course one day I hope to throw sex into that but that will wait till I find Mr Firm Right Hand.
- Would you rather your spanker ice your bottom down after a spanking or send you to the corner to display his/her accomplishment? HA!! Worzel never sends me to the corner and he has never used ice. Not sure I would like the ice part though.
- Would you rather your spanker be the person you wish to live the rest of your life with (i.e. marriage) or the person you can call on when your tushy tickles? Again, I am waiting for Mr Firm Right Hand. Till then I have Worzel.
- Would you rather spanking be a part of love making or not a part of love making? Sigh………one day.
- Would you rather your spanker have total control over you when you are being spanked or do you still want to have some control while you are being spanked? I don’t want the control. Thats why I’m a subbie lol.
- Would you rather be humiliated or respected during your spanking? Don’t like those words. Not for when I’m being spanked anyway. Yes I want to make him proud of me, proud of the way I take the spanking…especially if its a punishment. I don’t want to be humiliated at all.
- Would you rather spanking become part of a bigger BDSM alternative lifestyle or spanking just be spanking for spanking sake? Labels again!!! I’m a spanko and proud of it!
- Would you rather be filmed during a spanking to share your exhibitionist naughtiness or are you too modest to show your bum to the world? I would love to do a film one day……..hopefully soon.
- Would you rather your spanking be gentle and gradual or painful and abrupt? If its for play, both. if punishment, well that is out of my hands.
- Would you rather be defiant or fearful going into a spanking? Errr, I think I already do both lol.
- Would you rather be spanked exclusively in your own bedroom or anyplace else other than your own bedroom? Why stick to one room?
- Would you rather be spanked exclusively on your bottom or other places could be interesting too? I don’t like my legs being spanked but Worzel does. Again this is to do with my submission.
- Would you rather a spanking be a surprise or be something you have to look forward to? Wot like a random swat? Mmmmmmmm.
- Would you rather spanking be a part of role playing kinkiness or a response to events that have happened in reality? Both. I like roleplay but sometimes it makes me feel silly.
Whew, that was a long meme, but fun.
Love to Mum, Dad and Worzel.
I stole this from Bonnies blog, MBS.
I also managed to screw up the numbering.
Because this meme has 50 questions I’m gonna do it in two parts.
Feel free to ask questions about these questions and I will do a burning question to answer your question should you have any questions.
Would you rather be spanked outside in a cold woodshed or inside by a cozy fire?
Hmmm…how about, outside in the cold on a hot summers day. Inside by the fire on a winters day.
- Would you rather be spanked in public or in private? In private, cos then I don’t have to do my bravado act.
- Would you rather fantasize about spanking or actually be spanked? Hmmm…well I fantasized about it for so many years I would rather have the real thing now.
- Would you rather be spanked for your humiliation or for your spanker’s pleasure? Worzel would never humiliate me. Its consensual on both sides.
- Would you rather be spanked by hand or by hairbrush? HAND!!!!! Don’t even think about coming near me with a hairbrush!!!
- Would you rather be spanked by belt or by cane? Belt. I love the belt, I could lie there all day for the belt.
- Would you rather be spanked by paddle or riding crop? Paddle…..perhaps one I made myself lol.
- Would you rather be restrained or unrestrained during your spanking? Well we have tried restraints and I panicked, and not in a good way so I think I’ll keep my hands free thanks. Besides, I don’t really move that much during a spanking.
- Would you rather be spanked until you cried or until you are aroused? I still find it very hard to cry but i would rather this one i think.
- Would you rather have just a red bottom or welts/bruises? I get so excited each time Worzel says I have marks or I look in the mirror and see some for myself. But then the sight of my own red arse is pleasing too.
- Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things you have done or just because you enjoy the experience? If I wasn’t spanked for the naughty things I would burden myself with guilt. I’m excellent at berating myself. I think a good spanking relationship needs both these elements. It lets the spankee know that she is wholly cared for. “I care for you enough to spank you for fun but i also care enough to spank you to teach you how to behave.” That’s very important for me, I need both sides.
- Would you rather be spanked with pants up/skirt down or pants down/skirt up? And if i wore a skirt?
- Would you rather be spanked with panties up or panties down? All spankings are on the bare. Besides, that’s not my choice to make, its part of my submission.
- Would you rather be spanked somewhat clothed or entirely naked? I will not be spanked naked until I find Mr Firm Right Hand. That pleasure is reserved for my future love.
- Would you rather your spanking be strictly disciplinarian or sexually attractive in nature? I find all spankings sexually attractive. Some more than others, I don’t really get a thrill at the punishment side.
- Would you rather be spanked by a male or by a female? Male. No woman/female spanks or strikes me in anyway.
- Would you rather be cuddled or scolded after your spanking? Cuddled. Generally the scolding should come before or during the spanking. Afterwards is reserved for forgiveness, cream and cuddles. And maybe ice cream.
- Would you rather be spanked OTK or bent over a table/chair? OTK. I love this position, I feel so safe.
- Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you? Yes. I need to know that he is there. Even if its just a hand in the small of my back, that presence is very important to me.
- Would you prefer to be spanked in the woods with a tree branch, bent over the hood of a car, or in a school with a ruler bent over the desk of your teacher/principal? Yes please!
- Would you rather be a brat to your spanker to deserve a spanking or simply ask your spanker for a spanking because you know you needed it? I am still getting my head round the fact that I can ask for a spanking but I don’t ask. I usually brat but hopefully, with time I shall gain more confidence and one day just be able to ask.
- Have you received a spanking in the past week? Oh hell yes.
- Would you rather be spanked for the physical pleasure or the emotional release? Both sounds rather good seeing as they are both connected.
- Would you rather tell your best friends you enjoy be spanked or keep it secret? Ha! All my friends are spankos, I don’t really have vanilla friends anymore.
- Would you rather spanking be a lifestyle choice or just something you dabble in? I have lived 20 something years without spanking as a lifestyle and I am NOT going to give it up now that I have found it. My life has vastly improved since I found this side of me and nothing is going to take it away from me.
Ok so that’s part 1. Part 2 will follow in a few days. In the mean time, if you have questions I will do my best to answer.
Love and hugs to Mum, Dad and Worzel.